Teen Dating Violence: It is More Common than You Think

This is the month of “love, couples, and cupids”, as so many look forward to Valentine’s Day and romantic ideal of being the object of another’s affection.  Everyone looks for love and acceptance.  Sometimes we look for it in all the wrong places and all the wrong faces.  Our family members and loved ones who are between the ages of 12 – 19 years of age are especially vulnerable to this idea, also making them vulnerable for teen dating violence.

This age group experiences the highest rates of rape and sexual assault and reveal that girls are particularly vulnerable to experiencing violence in their relationships.  This fact leaves them open to be more likely to suffer long-term behavioral and health consequences, including suicide attempts, eating disorders, and drug use.

These toxic and unhealthy experiences lead to patterns of unhealthy future relationships and, unhealthy behaviors. 

Characteristics of an unhealthy relationship:

• Stalking
• Excessive jealousy and anger
• Insecurity
• Moodiness
• Pressure to engage in unwanted sexual activity
• Controlling behavior
• Verbal abuse

If you or a loved one believes they are experiencing this, remember, abuse is never your fault and asking for help is nothing to be ashamed of: 

• National 24/7 Crisis Hotline:   1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
• Family Advocacy Program:     406-731-2161