My Friends Are Telling Me to Abort, But I’m Not Ready.

First things first, you alone can make a pregnancy decision. Whether you decide to have input from loved ones is your choice, but no one can force you to choose a pregnancy option–including abortion. 

It’s natural to feel unprepared to make a pregnancy decision, especially if you’re still learning about the available options. We’re here to help.

Our team will help you understand your options in a non-judgmental space. Contact us today to learn more. 

You Are in Control

It’s normal to look to your friends for advice and support. Good relationships are built on honesty and healthy communication. 

However, an unplanned pregnancy means you must make a thoughtful decision. Outside pressure could lead you to make a decision that you disagree with or feel uncomfortable with. 

As the one who is pregnant, you alone have the right to decide. After all, it will affect you most.

Setting firm boundaries with your friends is crucial. They are likely worried about your future and want to provide insight, but deciding for you isn’t okay.

How to Take Back Control

In addition to setting boundaries about your friends’ role in this process, you can also suggest ways that they can support you.

Often, loved ones feel helpless in stressful situations. They may think the best solution is to tell you how to move forward, but only you can determine your future.

Instead, you can share how they can help during this time. Some examples of ways your friends can be supportive include:

• Running errands or doing household chores
• Being a shoulder to cry on and offering a listening ear
• Arranging outings and activities to give you fun things to look forward to
• Making an effort to ask you how you can be supported

Navigating an unplanned pregnancy can be difficult, so avoiding extra stress is crucial. We can help you determine your next steps.

Free and Confidential Services

Soundview provides access to ultrasounds by referral. If you meet specific eligibility criteria and have received a positive pregnancy test result. This medical service and others can be offered through onsite, independent medical professionals. This scan helps protect your health and provides the details needed to proceed.

We’ll also discuss your options. You deserve to learn about abortion, adoption, and parenting in a confidential environment. You won’t face pressure here to make a particular decision. 

You have a place here. Make a free and confidential appointment today. 

All medical services are provided by referral to independent onsite medical professionals at no cost to you. Soundview does not, nor does the independent, onsite medical office, refer or provide abortion services. Soundview does not provide medical services or medical advice.